Wives Date: Swinging, soft swinging and other topics

About sharing, cuckolding, dating or whatever you call it

This site is not what you may think. It isn't for posting pictures or for sexy stories. This site is not for people who cheat on their spouse.

This site is a guide for those navigating the increasingly popular activity of wives who have sex with men other than their husbands, with the husband's knowledge and permission or aquiessence.

Many men have the fantesy that they want their wife to experience other men. Some want to watch or participate. Others want to have their wife return home and tell them all about the "date."

Other men want to swing. Some are what we call "sub" and want their wife to be dominated by another man. Some other men simply want to share their wife once in a while to give their wife a little variety and to enjoy the experience themselves.

Whatever the reasons, and whatever the variation of a married woman dating other men, this lifestyle is often called "cuckolding."

There are many sites discussing cuckolding, but my husband and I could not find any sites that deal with the process couples go through as they discuss and decide whether the woman should experience other men and what the husband's role should be.

So I have created this site. Yes, I have other men. My husband knows and consents. He does not want other women. We have a strong and happy marriage and two wonderful children. The one thing that makes us a bit different is that I do have sex with other men, and I have also had sex in threesomes with other women.

If you are repelled by this conduct, please just click away to another site. If you want to understand more about the emotional side of cuckolding and its many variations, please consider contributing your personal experience so we all can learn from each other about the pitfalls and problems as well as the pleasures of this lifestyle.

Let's be helpful to each other, not judgemental!