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About sharing, cuckolding, dating or whatever you call it
This site is not what you may think. It isn't for posting pictures or for sexy stories. This site is not for people who cheat on their spouse.
This site is a guide for those navigating the increasingly popular activity of wives who have sex with men other than their husbands, with the husband's knowledge and permission or aquiessence.
Many men have the fantesy that they want their wife to experience other men. Some want to watch or participate. Others want to have their wife return home and tell them all about the "date."
Other men want to swing. Some are what we call "sub" and want their wife to be dominated by another man. Some other men simply want to share their wife once in a while to give their wife a little variety and to enjoy the experience themselves.
Whatever the reasons, and whatever the variation of a married woman dating other men, this lifestyle is often called "cuckolding."
There are many sites discussing cuckolding, but my husband and I could not find any sites that deal with the process couples go through as they discuss and decide whether the woman should experience other men and what the husband's role should be.
So I have created this site. Yes, I have other men. My husband knows and consents. He does not want other women. We have a strong and happy marriage and two wonderful children. The one thing that makes us a bit different is that I do have sex with other men, and I have also had sex in threesomes with other women.
If you are repelled by this conduct, please just click away to another site. If you want to understand more about the emotional side of cuckolding and its many variations, please consider contributing your personal experience so we all can learn from each other about the pitfalls and problems as well as the pleasures of this lifestyle.
Let's be helpful to each other, not judgemental!
This site is a guide for those navigating the increasingly popular activity of wives who have sex with men other than their husbands, with the husband's knowledge and permission or aquiessence.
Many men have the fantesy that they want their wife to experience other men. Some want to watch or participate. Others want to have their wife return home and tell them all about the "date."
Other men want to swing. Some are what we call "sub" and want their wife to be dominated by another man. Some other men simply want to share their wife once in a while to give their wife a little variety and to enjoy the experience themselves.
Whatever the reasons, and whatever the variation of a married woman dating other men, this lifestyle is often called "cuckolding."
There are many sites discussing cuckolding, but my husband and I could not find any sites that deal with the process couples go through as they discuss and decide whether the woman should experience other men and what the husband's role should be.
So I have created this site. Yes, I have other men. My husband knows and consents. He does not want other women. We have a strong and happy marriage and two wonderful children. The one thing that makes us a bit different is that I do have sex with other men, and I have also had sex in threesomes with other women.
If you are repelled by this conduct, please just click away to another site. If you want to understand more about the emotional side of cuckolding and its many variations, please consider contributing your personal experience so we all can learn from each other about the pitfalls and problems as well as the pleasures of this lifestyle.
Let's be helpful to each other, not judgemental!
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We have had good luck using swinger date web sites like SDC and SLS. These single swingers have experience are in it for sex arent looking for romance and want to keep good reputations within the swinging community and getvgood referials on the sites.
ReplyDeleteUnless this is a "stranger takes over my wife fantasy...and she is down for it..."...then Never allow the third person (the future bull) to know what he is getting into sexually until the end of the night (or courtship)...then once the night is over.... and... good byes are being said by all...tell the third person your are doing an after party/hangout...but still do not let on any sex vibes...once you are all alone...develop a 15 min conversation on real common topics (anything but sex talk...it can be risque, but not hey bang my wife now)....then gradually move into it.... Basically don't make the whole "get to know you phase go straight from meeting to sex...build a solid comfort level (all night) then ease into it. Ultimately sex is better this way.
ReplyDeleteSome how....though very weird...I am often recruited by cuck couples to be their "third"...From experience...It's always better to get to know people as friends first (even though desire maybe present) spend a good amount of time before getting physical and I make sure that I 100% respect and understand that they are a couple...and I am just some spice. I am not there to win a wife over or try to out perform her man, but more to give them both what they want in a respectful way.
ReplyDeleteIt's doesn't mean the sex can't be painful/pleasure-able for the hubby to watch (but it's about when the whole shin-dig ends...that everyone knows it was a role play....not a who bangs my wife better contest....try and make sure that their is no awkwardness when the night ends (it was just a show) not for real.
Having a regretful "aftermath" theme can really be a buzz kill ....if there is no comfort level established first.
I find that this understanding the process above (and understanding am just helping their fantasy (not intruding on their relationship) (1_ ultimately makes the physical part better (2) It helps remind me they are a couple first (and I am just an accessory) & (3) the "afttermath" is cool and calculated....not weird and scary.
I liked what you had to say. My pretty wife and I have not done this yet. She waivers between wanting to be comfortable with someone and not wanting to form a relationship with this person that would threaten hers and ours.
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